TW: RAPE CULTURE, VICTIM BLAMING
the thing that upsets me most here is that quite a few of these sample replies show profile photos of children. These people are raising families and kids. And for those fathers with daughters,I wonder how amusing they would find it if they knew there was at least a 1 in 4 chance of their own child being sexually assaulted or raped in her own lifetime.
A real funny joke there, dads.
This is highly disturbing
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ahhh i wanna cry
every time i read a comment (on the picture) i wanted to rip my hair out.
This is repulsive.
As a guy I think the problem most men have is that they don’t actually understand what rape is, they see it as simply a rough fuck which is why I think people like this have the attitude they do.
Although revealing clothes and alcohol certainly do not help the mix, the fault for the crime should never be placed on the victim.
Any responsible person would not drive into a shady neighborhood, get out of their car, leaving the door wide open and leave for half an hour and come back expecting their radio not to be missing.
Same idea with wearing revealing clothes and walking alone through a shady neighborhood. If someone does that and gets raped, are they at fault for being raped? Hell no. Did they increase their chances? Hell yes they did.
Another analogy: If it is raining and you are walking through an open field it is probably not a good idea to keep walking. If you get struck by lightning is it your fault? No the lightning could have to struck a tree, but because lightning is electricity it chose the easiest most opportune path.
Ultimately like any crime there is a certain level of crime prevention that should be observed by an individual to protect themselves. I hate the fact that we are so adamant to say the women are so defenseless and inferior that when something bad does happen there is absolutely nothing they could have done to prevent it.
Sure in certain situations such as date rape, this is certainly not the case. The victim trusted the rapist and often times aren’t in bad neighborhoods or wearing revealing clothes. There is little that could have been done, within reason, to prevent it.
I absolutely DESPISE anyone that says that because the girl had made out with and given oral to the rapist, when intercourse came into the equation and the girl said “No, I am not comfortable going that far” that excuses the rapists because women shouldn’t lead men on like that and should be subservient.
NO MEANS FUCKING NO! If anyone, man or woman, says no, that is the end of the discussion. Don’t rape them, don’t pressure or coerce them, say ‘Ok I understand you are not comfortable with that, I will wait until you are.’ That is being a respectable and decent human being.
If a girl falsely accuses a man of raping her, there should be some very very harsh consequences. There are more men falsely accused of rape than there are men that are raped.
There is so much fucked up about this on so many levels. Falsely accusing someone of raped you, completely desecrates the issue of rape. Ever heard of the boy who cried wolf.
This completely destroys the life of the victim. Everyone in the victims social circle loses trust in him and doubts his character. The victim often gets expelled from college and fired from their job. It utterly decimates the victims reputation.
Rape is a very serious and complex issue. In general there isn’t enough compassion for the victims. Unfortunately due to human nature and our incessant need to feel power over there environment, there is always going to be rape. But we can further our efforts to eliminate rape culture and helping the victims of such a disgusting crime.